How To Make A Positive Habit

Often we hear the "phrase", every thing we do consistently too long will become a habit (habit). Habits that we do consistently long will shape our character. Characters that we will ultimately shape the culture (culture). So I hypothesize, that in our beloved country Indonesia culture originated from our habits. Any culture, the culture of lazy, cultural demos, a culture of mutual tolerance, a culture of mutual respect, everything is back on our private, in our habit.

Tips # 1 Start of Small Things

The habit of it starts from small steps. Want to be a great entrepreneur, start small businesses. I have a dream of owning a business a great distro complete with screen printing equipment and printing. A little thing I do is to become a reseller distro clothes, polo shirt soccer jersey and football. Why the ball, I really like soccer and I'm sure with the market share of the ball is also great.

Mr. Ali Akbar SEO experts often make tweets "be a business man with your twitter and Blackberry". Indeed, many things we can do now with the technology soc media. The question of "Do We Want to Start it?" For me, i want it, start small.

Tips #2 Select Supportive Environment

I used to be active in a Multi Level Marketing which is huge in Indonesia approximately 3 years. Yup, in a MLM, one positive thing that I feel is "we are in high spirits Group". Motivation, motivation and motivation to continue to rise, get up and keep the spirit. At that time I was in an environment that has positive behavior and mindset. I live a spirit, which was able to make my own dreams. Well a dream.


At this point I was not involved anymore in the world of MLM because of the demands I had to have a permanent job, my future wife expects me to work at that time for reasons he can work and still be a MLM distributor. But it turns out if it was in my employee world "fun" and slowly did I leave the MLM world. But one that is not lost, the spirit to have own business, keep reading books and course management skills trying to establish / affiliation with the environment that supports it.

Tips # 3 Create Reward and Punishment for Ourselves

I read a lot of books as well as of the seminar, one of self development tips is create a system of reward and punishment for us. For example, my commitment to the fast Monday-Thursday, if achieved in a week that I iftharnya at my favorite cafe, with a menu of my favorites, if not met I punish myself by meeting the entire demand for wives in the day, like massage, wash dishes, mop and cleaning the bathroom.

For the positive things, you can also establish your reward and punishment system. This self was very important to appreciate, no matter how small it is. So the accomplishments that we get a little trigger [triggered] in greater achievement.

Tips.# 4 Make something interesting related to the creation of your habit

Self motivation is important to change the behavior. Still liked, motivation should be interesting connection with our habit formation. Assume that we are committed to working out every day. With a strong passion we started jogging, but for too long we would be bored. Maybe something interesting is jogging on a treadmill [gym]. Jogging on a treadmill in a fitness routine will take care of us. When we eventually get bored, just do more things like running earphone while listening to music so much enthusiasm. The point be creative to create your positive habit.

So that I can share regarding the formation of a positive habit I coating of a variety of reading materials. Hopefully there are benefits.

Regards

Dhymalk dhykTa

business owner

The Simple Way to Avoid Stress

In life and life there is always stress. Not only humans, animals and plants are also experiencing stress. So do not panic if you're experiencing stress. The former first identify what the source of stress is, what causes it?
Based on personal experience and my coworkers in the office,
Various causes can lead to stress, for example:


1. You've been fired from a job or you do not have a steady job,

2. Newly divorced from your husband or wife, or you are a widow or widower who are lonely, or you are not married, or are seeking a life partner,

3. You have recently moved house, or you do not have a home,

If it can overcome the three that does not mean you will be stress free, as it will appear again

Other sources of stress are:
1. You have a chronic illness, not cured, of whom it was stress disease.

2. Like people are too nosy affairs committee,

3. You never can reward, from a small, young to old,

4. You can never be grateful with what is,

5. Your impatient face life's difficulties,

By identifying the sources of stress that exist, then face life with a chill out. Life need not be too eager to get something, take it easy ...

These is the tips to avoid stress:
1. If you do not have permanent jobs, find jobs, get jobs in the elderly, in-law, wife, husband, if you have a job but no one paid for your work, then look for additional income, looking for odd jobs. For example, if your job to write, write with a blogging ... If you work as a farmer, do your job while catching fish, there is an important sideline.

2. If you do not have a partner yaa find a suitable partner, that you care and love, if you are new or newly divorced couple left, so look for a replacement or stay in their own home life unhappy ...

3. If you are homeless, or are still involved parents / in-law, look for a boarding house or rented house, unless you are in charge of caring for parents / in-law is old and sick, faced with a patient ... be grateful that your life does not need to rent a house , because there are parents or in-laws that may provide shelter ..

4. If you have a stubborn illness, trying to do things to your friends, stay in touch because it extends the life of friendship and add fortune. Give charity to others because it makes the body healthy and prolong life also

5. If you have a regular job then certainly you do not like meddling with the affairs of people, unless your job is really like nosy and ngurusi affairs are not important ...

6.If you have never been able to award, make the race that no one can beat your opponent, for example "cooking contest salinity", guaranteed you will win and be able to reward and stress is gone

7. Learn to be grateful and be patient ...

Good luck with these tips, hopefully you avoid the stress ...

just my personal opinion

Loving Without hurting

Love is a beautiful gift that God gives us, by which we live, with whom we share, with whom we love one another. Surely the words Love isn’t foreign word in our ears, why? Since God is the Supreme Lover, who has taught us by His Word to be mutually love eachothers without any sense of purpose in our hearts. Too many theologians divine that leads us to implement the "unconditional love" in our lives.

A husband and wife had promised before, pledged to be complementary, sharing, love each other forever without the slightest sense to injure. The name of love certainly contrary to the word injury, but why is there this expression of "Loving Without hurting". My Mom said "if you love, why your love can hurt your girlfriend or wife?, The answer would come back to us each one, how much love we are, how in the sense that we distribute to the people we" love "it.

In mouth may we say love and affection but the meaning of true love if we can mix and match with a sincere heart and deeds that reflect that love. According to experts, the science of love, "the justified with the heart, uttered by the tongue, and practiced with deeds". This is actually in love with a beautiful taste, Loving without leaving the slightest injury, sincere love, the love that comes from the Creator who has taught the essential love. I Ever say to a woman who is my soulmate "I love you sincerely for Allah. A phrase that is in the same time guarantees not likely I love outside the lines that have been promoted through the verses of holy and guidance of His Messenger.

Indeed, all of which must be equipped with the science of love earlier, oral speech, with a sincere heart must prove by deeds of love and the best that I have, I can.

Remembering the story Rabhiatul Adawiyah that until his death was not married to any one man, but she is beautiful, good and religious. He was a Sufi, and we know together, he did not love the creature pinned double for fear of his love for his Lord. What a tremendous sacrifice of love.

In closing, love it with all sincerity, do not you love a bit much to feel hurt by your love.

Best Regard

Always Changing to a better direction

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Yesterday i had posted "How Life Should Be??". Now I continue to write some Reflection about. Always Changing to a better direction.

Humans used to like new things, and boredom is something that always accompanies it. We can see the neighbor replace his vehicle after vehicle with her ever faithful. Our colleagues to change his clothes, changing his home, renewing the furnishings in it or set it back, updating the room they occupy, and they plan to travel or tourism. It could be that not only our colleagues, but ourselves. Let us reflect together back buddy! 

Thus the normal human condition and it's not unusual, but strange in this case is this update touches everything in the life of our world and not concerned with the renewal of our next issue. So no wonder many wise men say, they are only concerned with the world, they are in weakness and his stubborn, insensitive, his spirits fell, and wallowing in a lot of immorality.

Sometimes we do not realize this and we do not feel tired of having these conditions even in a long time without updates. Pearl verses today about luck and failure in the world and days later, in the word of Allah, "Truly successful who purifies the soul. And actually lost the person who contaminated, "{Qs Ash-Shams [91] :9-10} 

God associate luck  with people who want to make updates to the soul and always wanted to achieve a high degree, refusing attitude has always been on one condition, and to cause failures and losses for people who let her soul possessed by various disobedience without going to try to save him from damage. May we be spared from such things and little by little began to renew itself to something more useful.

The Secret of Google Hot Trends

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Today i ''ll post Tips of Search Engine Optimization

One of the secrets of SEO is how you make a post that is a trend in google. Why?

Since the entry of our blog on google trends made ​​many people who open our blog. One of the tips for those of you who are so busy with school, office, and we still want the blog remains on the front page of google is to make a post that many in search of people
Of course the content of the blog we also have quality and useful for others. After doing his post and title according to the keywords that many people search on google, will create a blog we sit comfortably in the front yard.
To check the topic again on google trends please open the following links:

GOOGLE HOT TRENDS 
Once we know make a post in connection with the topic.
With these steps we can save a lot of time and continue to put our blog on the front row of google.

Other Post of The Week:

• "For  u, who wants look for 'Tips Be an interesting Men
• Personal Development Series Challenge of Change

Be Your Self to create an inspiration

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Many people said that writing needs something named idea. Idea to write. We can call this idea as inspiration.

Yeah, people need to get some inspiration before writing. Inspiration about story, inspiration about opinion, inspiration about photos, inspiration about life, or inspiration about anything that could be written in our blog. Inspiration is a main idea about what would you do or what would you tell to the world with your writing. I also write this article because many young people nowdays are successful with writing, blogging or internet marketing.

Well, this is one way to get inspiration from me. I often do this when I caught in the middle of emptiness. Put your hand in keyboard, and start thinking something positive. For me i always start seeing motivation videos such as ESQ by Ginanjar Agustian, Spiritual by AA Gym. It can make my feeling so strong, strong believe and more motivated to start writing a useful thing.

But Sometimes i look many Heroes Picture like Sukarno, Syahrir, Syeikh Ahmed Yassin, It will burn my spirit.  

But at the end, it just suitable for me and hope it'll suitable for others. My Suggestion :

"Be yourself. Don't try to be somebody else or like everybody else... You'd be a lot more interesting"

Be Interesting People ; Arts Maximizing Fascination

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Have an interesting personality of every human being must be desirable. I, you, or anyone. The presence of an attractive person always look forward to many people. Absence missed. The question is, What special qualities that exist in humans, which could make others wonder and awe? And ... YOU are? Some people may think only beautiful people, physically handsome, clever, or even the rich who have a fascination? Actually not so! Everyone has the potential to become a human being that has high appeal, a person who's wished and expected. Including your own! Your charm can be grown and created by the positive energy you have. How do you create a positive aura to create interest for others? Here are 7 Art Maximizing Fascination {adapted from multiple sources of self-improvement book}: 

1. Keep Doing Good Without Ever count
   Do a kindness like writing in the sand and pahatlah in stone for every mistake you make.
   That is, forget all your kindness to others, do not count! :-) Attitudes like these will train sincerity, and when used, you will feel a real sense of satisfaction.
2. Humble
   Just a lot of humble people who liked other people. Another case with people who pride, humility is a manifestation of tolerance and has a high value. Humility and peace interlocked. Believe in yourself, and get rid of the desire to always want to prove to other people.
3. Keep Purity
   Appear 'as usual'. Be yourself. To have the appeal we do not have to be someone else. Being yourself is much more valuable than we always want to look 'like others'.
4. Be Full of People Who Interests
   What do you say to yourself about life, and yourself, from day to day, could provide a tremendous effect. All the time, look at yourself as a person of interest. Keep feeling it as clearly as possible in mind. By itself, 'natural' will attract all the things that are important to improve your feelings and views it. Be always cheerful, hopeful, and make the world hooked on you
5. Cheerful face
   Laughter is healthy. Create Your face is always cheerful. When we smile, the brain will react and produce endorphins (a natural substance that removes the pain). In addition, the smile will make you able to relax. A smile will also spread the joy to others. Emphasize in mind, when you are with someone else, that smile can shorten the 'distance' between the others.
6. Enthusiasm and Passion
   Two of these are mothers who give birth successfully. Enthusiasm and desire to bring in money, power and influence. The big thing will not be achieved without enthusiasm. Always confident in what you do. Do any of your work with great love. Put enthusiasm in your personal, then he will create something extraordinary for you.
7. Manners
   Behavior, politeness and kindness can make others believe in us. Good manners will make others feel comfortable with us. Manners are a source of pleasure, security, and this is done by showing respect for others.

Be polite on everyone you know, no matter their status and position. Treat every person with good manners.

Hopefully the seventh art above can be implemented in our lives in order to "be more Living Our Lives"

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for my brother KANG PAKIES Happy Milad, HOPE Barakallah Ta'ala in the world and the Future

4 Tricks to Overcome Pain Work Bored at the Office

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Completed the same job every day  indeed lead to saturation in the works. As a result, morale declined. And, you did not have the motivation to finish the job that the company charged.
When feeling bored at work hit you, do not be silenced. Make yourself excited and motivated to return to work. How to raise work motivation?
Morale and motivation in a person because there are affected internal and external factors, such as problems in the family, attitudes and policies of the leadership that is not conducive, the disease you are suffering, the desire to ride position, or be tempted company promised bonuses.
If there is no negativity on internal and external factors that make your mood down, morale and motivation as embers fanned, and posing a fire blazing. Conversely, there are few things negaitf on two factors, the spirit can be extinguished immediately.
Well, so you do not reprimand the leadership, given a warning letter (SP), or even fired because of lackluster companies and is considered not useful, the following tips. 

Maintain professionalism

Companies and families are two different places with different needs and interests of all, even if you live in an environment of both. Separate your work world with domestic life and family.

Never carry household and family issues into the workplace. In this way, your mood for the job, not disturbed. Morale and motivation were intact, not reduced. Moreover disappeared.

Do not forget the aim of working

When you send a job application, anxiously waiting for calls, struggling to 'beat' the other applicants during the interview session, and eventually began working on the company entrusted with the task, what goals you want to achieve with all that struggle?

A good income to meet all needs, and can live comfortable and respectable with his parents, wife and children?

Do not waste that struggle. If you currently have a problem with the company, find a way out, but do not loosen the spirit and motivation of your work. If your performance decreases, even to below the standard, believe me, you will only face bigger problems, because you could be fired with no respect. 

Positive Thinking 

Life is full of problems. This could not be denied. An organization called the company was definitely so. Especially because this organization has so many employees and assets to be managed and developed properly. So think positive about your company. Even though you know there is a negative for the company, still see the bright side.  

 It helps you to stay motivated at work.

Keep communication 

It can not be denied, company policy and attitude of the leadership can be one factor that decreases the mood of employees to work. Keep the communication to find a solution. If you can not deal with the leadership or the company alone, ask your friends to confront the same boat. Space is often effective communication to resolve the problem, because most companies do not want turmoil in his body.

 this tips taken from website : http://vivanews.com

My Ambition in 25th Years Old

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Thank God ... now I've started to move toward adulthood ......
Not feel is mid-2011 but in retrospect, 2005 is still felt today .....
and did not feel parents, aunt, uncle and grandfather had started nearly 50 years and 60 years
Come to think of God more and restrict me to give something valuable for them ....
They can not wait as time went on ....


How My Life Should be ....?????
 




In my 25 years old .... I must give to Them .......


tp I do not know ... what ?????


I believe and trust the people we love who do not expect a reward for everything they did to us during this since we were born until now .... ..


but the thing is ... when they can smile and proudly say ...




My Son ... Success has been already ........




I really want to get success in my 25 years old, ...




Success in Financial, Self improvement, and time / Raymond freedom ......




I really wants to be


I am proud to be my self ....

Dhymalk dhykTa

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