Loving Without hurting

Love is a beautiful gift that God gives us, by which we live, with whom we share, with whom we love one another. Surely the words Love isn’t foreign word in our ears, why? Since God is the Supreme Lover, who has taught us by His Word to be mutually love eachothers without any sense of purpose in our hearts. Too many theologians divine that leads us to implement the "unconditional love" in our lives.

A husband and wife had promised before, pledged to be complementary, sharing, love each other forever without the slightest sense to injure. The name of love certainly contrary to the word injury, but why is there this expression of "Loving Without hurting". My Mom said "if you love, why your love can hurt your girlfriend or wife?, The answer would come back to us each one, how much love we are, how in the sense that we distribute to the people we" love "it.

In mouth may we say love and affection but the meaning of true love if we can mix and match with a sincere heart and deeds that reflect that love. According to experts, the science of love, "the justified with the heart, uttered by the tongue, and practiced with deeds". This is actually in love with a beautiful taste, Loving without leaving the slightest injury, sincere love, the love that comes from the Creator who has taught the essential love. I Ever say to a woman who is my soulmate "I love you sincerely for Allah. A phrase that is in the same time guarantees not likely I love outside the lines that have been promoted through the verses of holy and guidance of His Messenger.

Indeed, all of which must be equipped with the science of love earlier, oral speech, with a sincere heart must prove by deeds of love and the best that I have, I can.

Remembering the story Rabhiatul Adawiyah that until his death was not married to any one man, but she is beautiful, good and religious. He was a Sufi, and we know together, he did not love the creature pinned double for fear of his love for his Lord. What a tremendous sacrifice of love.

In closing, love it with all sincerity, do not you love a bit much to feel hurt by your love.

Best Regard

Always Changing to a better direction

{indonesian page} : Tonjok Di SINI

Yesterday i had posted "How Life Should Be??". Now I continue to write some Reflection about. Always Changing to a better direction.

Humans used to like new things, and boredom is something that always accompanies it. We can see the neighbor replace his vehicle after vehicle with her ever faithful. Our colleagues to change his clothes, changing his home, renewing the furnishings in it or set it back, updating the room they occupy, and they plan to travel or tourism. It could be that not only our colleagues, but ourselves. Let us reflect together back buddy! 

Thus the normal human condition and it's not unusual, but strange in this case is this update touches everything in the life of our world and not concerned with the renewal of our next issue. So no wonder many wise men say, they are only concerned with the world, they are in weakness and his stubborn, insensitive, his spirits fell, and wallowing in a lot of immorality.

Sometimes we do not realize this and we do not feel tired of having these conditions even in a long time without updates. Pearl verses today about luck and failure in the world and days later, in the word of Allah, "Truly successful who purifies the soul. And actually lost the person who contaminated, "{Qs Ash-Shams [91] :9-10} 

God associate luck  with people who want to make updates to the soul and always wanted to achieve a high degree, refusing attitude has always been on one condition, and to cause failures and losses for people who let her soul possessed by various disobedience without going to try to save him from damage. May we be spared from such things and little by little began to renew itself to something more useful.