Loving Without hurting

Love is a beautiful gift that God gives us, by which we live, with whom we share, with whom we love one another. Surely the words Love isn’t foreign word in our ears, why? Since God is the Supreme Lover, who has taught us by His Word to be mutually love eachothers without any sense of purpose in our hearts. Too many theologians divine that leads us to implement the "unconditional love" in our lives.

A husband and wife had promised before, pledged to be complementary, sharing, love each other forever without the slightest sense to injure. The name of love certainly contrary to the word injury, but why is there this expression of "Loving Without hurting". My Mom said "if you love, why your love can hurt your girlfriend or wife?, The answer would come back to us each one, how much love we are, how in the sense that we distribute to the people we" love "it.

In mouth may we say love and affection but the meaning of true love if we can mix and match with a sincere heart and deeds that reflect that love. According to experts, the science of love, "the justified with the heart, uttered by the tongue, and practiced with deeds". This is actually in love with a beautiful taste, Loving without leaving the slightest injury, sincere love, the love that comes from the Creator who has taught the essential love. I Ever say to a woman who is my soulmate "I love you sincerely for Allah. A phrase that is in the same time guarantees not likely I love outside the lines that have been promoted through the verses of holy and guidance of His Messenger.

Indeed, all of which must be equipped with the science of love earlier, oral speech, with a sincere heart must prove by deeds of love and the best that I have, I can.

Remembering the story Rabhiatul Adawiyah that until his death was not married to any one man, but she is beautiful, good and religious. He was a Sufi, and we know together, he did not love the creature pinned double for fear of his love for his Lord. What a tremendous sacrifice of love.

In closing, love it with all sincerity, do not you love a bit much to feel hurt by your love.

Best Regard

First day in Ramadhan Mubarak

Ba'da Tahmid Wa Shalawat,
Dear all, before i had posted one Reflection "Change to better Direction" that motivate us to always make a chage in our life, what Direction? please visit link above.

Today, as a time in my region Makassar Indonesia, it is first day in Ramadhan Mubarok 1432 Hijrah. As a moslem it's a right momentum to make a reflection my life before to better life in future.
Talking about Ramadhan, certainly learning month of totally month of the year. In this month almost masjid filled by many people, from children to adult, man or woman, diligently come to masjid, join taraweh, Muhasabah,Tauziah and many activity in the holy Month.
i myself, have principe to back to Holy Qur'an, read it arabic and Indonesian pages, increase quantity and quality of praying and many more. It's so pretty holy month.

Last night, i prayed with my ex girlfriend in one beautiful Masjid in Panakkukang Makassar. as usual, in early Ramadhan, so many people, i get in the side of The masjid because inside had been fulled by Jamaah Tarwih Rahimakumullah. But no worry, i prayed with so many hopes in this Ramadhan i 'll get Al Falah [The Champions].

I my self have one special request "for completing my Islamic Truth"??i do hope in this year,amin...

One important moment in Ramadhan, all people happy, all businessman in market very happy, employees are happy, all of us are happy. why??i don't know why...just our feeling so stronge to love this month very much.

And in the end i really want to say from the bottom of my heart...

Ahlan Wa sahlan Ramadhan, Happy fasting month...Barakallahi fi kum.. 

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Always Changing to a better direction

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Yesterday i had posted "How Life Should Be??". Now I continue to write some Reflection about. Always Changing to a better direction.

Humans used to like new things, and boredom is something that always accompanies it. We can see the neighbor replace his vehicle after vehicle with her ever faithful. Our colleagues to change his clothes, changing his home, renewing the furnishings in it or set it back, updating the room they occupy, and they plan to travel or tourism. It could be that not only our colleagues, but ourselves. Let us reflect together back buddy! 

Thus the normal human condition and it's not unusual, but strange in this case is this update touches everything in the life of our world and not concerned with the renewal of our next issue. So no wonder many wise men say, they are only concerned with the world, they are in weakness and his stubborn, insensitive, his spirits fell, and wallowing in a lot of immorality.

Sometimes we do not realize this and we do not feel tired of having these conditions even in a long time without updates. Pearl verses today about luck and failure in the world and days later, in the word of Allah, "Truly successful who purifies the soul. And actually lost the person who contaminated, "{Qs Ash-Shams [91] :9-10} 

God associate luck  with people who want to make updates to the soul and always wanted to achieve a high degree, refusing attitude has always been on one condition, and to cause failures and losses for people who let her soul possessed by various disobedience without going to try to save him from damage. May we be spared from such things and little by little began to renew itself to something more useful.

Very Good News for Indonesian Netter

Chairman Executive Google Eric Schmidt

Dear Bloggers, there may be among us who listened to the arrival of strange Google Chairman Eric Schmidt to Executive Vice Presidential Palace by using Alphard Taxi. Unusual sights as a common car passing in the palace area vice president. Apparently a news colleague, officials google came to government to plan business expansion in Indonesia. Communication and Information Minister Mr Tifatul accompanying Vice President Budiono in detik.com said that google to discuss plans to open an office in Indonesia. "Google sees a great economic development and internet users in Indonesia. We also see that Google users are also large in Indonesia," said Tifatul, when met reporters at the Presidential Palace on Friday (07/22/2011). Well what about the positive effects for the people of Indonesia our bloggers especially those who may play a lot in the domain bloggers that in fact the product of google. In general this is very positive for the imaging of Indonesia, which could mean it is trusted by Internet giant to invest. In a matter of economics, would Indonesia be considered to have enormous potential to develop its business. Of course, a healthy investment climate to bring positive impact to our economy. Indonesia's economy is believed to be very quickly when connectivity (digital connectivity) are all connected. Colleagues certainly knew a lot about the rapid business through Search Engine google. I think that marketing via the internet / online will grow rapidly when google opened a branch in Indonesia. Why? Of course google will be many programs that make the level of buyer confidence to transact online via increased. Well, for bloggers? Surely many of you who tried to google adsense to try their luck through your web blog ads inserted dollars came. Initially it approve its an adsense whenever we make a blog in English. If Google had opened branches in the Republic is auto impact google adsense official blog in Indonesian language. With the potential for Internet users, including five of the world, unpredictable world of online, SEO, adsense, and others will progress rapidly as the Internet giant berdatangannya to our beloved country. So.... bloggers, blogging is no longer just a diary .. do more !!!

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one step with a changing domain

Alhamdulillah this night there was little change in my blog, Dear bloggers can see in my url. After several days i learn domain system, web hosting, DNS  by many specialists that finally I can also use your own domain without having to use again my blogspot at the end url.

I certainly hope this blog can be more professional, powerful and can be useful for others, according to the initial theme of making this blog "My Opinion of Our Solution for Better Life". In early time blogging just a relaxing time filler, but during the time embedded feelings do not always sleep the night before posting at least one post.

In My Indonesian language blog last posting , I wrote an interesting topic on the internet. Freedom of expression on the Internet should not harm others. Free but polite, it's the principle. So that writer tries to present an educational, entertaining, and always friendly with anyone in this virtual world.

In an occasion, Indonesian IT expert Mr Onno W. Purbo said that we often do not realize that at the end of the computer over there there is a man who holds the keyboard. Unfortunately, human beings remain human beings, they are not angels. There is a good human being, but also not having much less heart and intentions are not good. No wonder, if many cases are not good on the Internet, ranging from the problem of pornography (the form of photographs or video), violence, gambling, fraud, and even that is no less rife lately is libel to kidnapping that could end up with pathetic.

With consideration for others is always sharing, blogging was for things that are worthwhile and hopefully can become one solution to our extraordinary life

The Secret of Google Hot Trends

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Today i ''ll post Tips of Search Engine Optimization

One of the secrets of SEO is how you make a post that is a trend in google. Why?

Since the entry of our blog on google trends made ​​many people who open our blog. One of the tips for those of you who are so busy with school, office, and we still want the blog remains on the front page of google is to make a post that many in search of people
Of course the content of the blog we also have quality and useful for others. After doing his post and title according to the keywords that many people search on google, will create a blog we sit comfortably in the front yard.
To check the topic again on google trends please open the following links:

GOOGLE HOT TRENDS 
Once we know make a post in connection with the topic.
With these steps we can save a lot of time and continue to put our blog on the front row of google.

Other Post of The Week:

• "For  u, who wants look for 'Tips Be an interesting Men
• Personal Development Series Challenge of Change

Be Your Self to create an inspiration

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Many people said that writing needs something named idea. Idea to write. We can call this idea as inspiration.

Yeah, people need to get some inspiration before writing. Inspiration about story, inspiration about opinion, inspiration about photos, inspiration about life, or inspiration about anything that could be written in our blog. Inspiration is a main idea about what would you do or what would you tell to the world with your writing. I also write this article because many young people nowdays are successful with writing, blogging or internet marketing.

Well, this is one way to get inspiration from me. I often do this when I caught in the middle of emptiness. Put your hand in keyboard, and start thinking something positive. For me i always start seeing motivation videos such as ESQ by Ginanjar Agustian, Spiritual by AA Gym. It can make my feeling so strong, strong believe and more motivated to start writing a useful thing.

But Sometimes i look many Heroes Picture like Sukarno, Syahrir, Syeikh Ahmed Yassin, It will burn my spirit.  

But at the end, it just suitable for me and hope it'll suitable for others. My Suggestion :

"Be yourself. Don't try to be somebody else or like everybody else... You'd be a lot more interesting"

Be Interesting People ; Arts Maximizing Fascination

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Have an interesting personality of every human being must be desirable. I, you, or anyone. The presence of an attractive person always look forward to many people. Absence missed. The question is, What special qualities that exist in humans, which could make others wonder and awe? And ... YOU are? Some people may think only beautiful people, physically handsome, clever, or even the rich who have a fascination? Actually not so! Everyone has the potential to become a human being that has high appeal, a person who's wished and expected. Including your own! Your charm can be grown and created by the positive energy you have. How do you create a positive aura to create interest for others? Here are 7 Art Maximizing Fascination {adapted from multiple sources of self-improvement book}: 

1. Keep Doing Good Without Ever count
   Do a kindness like writing in the sand and pahatlah in stone for every mistake you make.
   That is, forget all your kindness to others, do not count! :-) Attitudes like these will train sincerity, and when used, you will feel a real sense of satisfaction.
2. Humble
   Just a lot of humble people who liked other people. Another case with people who pride, humility is a manifestation of tolerance and has a high value. Humility and peace interlocked. Believe in yourself, and get rid of the desire to always want to prove to other people.
3. Keep Purity
   Appear 'as usual'. Be yourself. To have the appeal we do not have to be someone else. Being yourself is much more valuable than we always want to look 'like others'.
4. Be Full of People Who Interests
   What do you say to yourself about life, and yourself, from day to day, could provide a tremendous effect. All the time, look at yourself as a person of interest. Keep feeling it as clearly as possible in mind. By itself, 'natural' will attract all the things that are important to improve your feelings and views it. Be always cheerful, hopeful, and make the world hooked on you
5. Cheerful face
   Laughter is healthy. Create Your face is always cheerful. When we smile, the brain will react and produce endorphins (a natural substance that removes the pain). In addition, the smile will make you able to relax. A smile will also spread the joy to others. Emphasize in mind, when you are with someone else, that smile can shorten the 'distance' between the others.
6. Enthusiasm and Passion
   Two of these are mothers who give birth successfully. Enthusiasm and desire to bring in money, power and influence. The big thing will not be achieved without enthusiasm. Always confident in what you do. Do any of your work with great love. Put enthusiasm in your personal, then he will create something extraordinary for you.
7. Manners
   Behavior, politeness and kindness can make others believe in us. Good manners will make others feel comfortable with us. Manners are a source of pleasure, security, and this is done by showing respect for others.

Be polite on everyone you know, no matter their status and position. Treat every person with good manners.

Hopefully the seventh art above can be implemented in our lives in order to "be more Living Our Lives"

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for my brother KANG PAKIES Happy Milad, HOPE Barakallah Ta'ala in the world and the Future

Function Windows Button @keyboard

Dear buddy, today i want to share one computer tips. maybe it's usual for some people, but maybe it's advantage for others. We often have a kind of shortcut ctrl-c, ctrl-v, ctrl-z. In general, we've memorized by rote with this command, because in addition to easy to reach, this shortcut also accelerate our work than we use right-click and choose copy, paste or undo.

Well, that is often overlooked is the windows. Actually a lot of pointless you know, not just to open the menu "start" on the left bottom of it. Here are the details:

Windows Logo (Indicates or eliminate the Start menu)

Windows Logo BREAK (Bring up the System Properties dialog box)

Windows Logo D (Show the desktop)

Windows Logo M (Minimize all windows)

Windows Logo SHIFT M (restore windows diminimize)

Windows Logo E (Open My Computer in explorer)

Windows Logo F (Search files or folders)

CTRL + Windows Logo F (Search Computer)

Windows Logo F1 (Open Windows Help)

Windows Logo L (Lock the keyboard)

Windows Logo R (Open the Run dialog box)

Windows Logo U (Open Utility Manager)

4 Tricks to Overcome Pain Work Bored at the Office

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Completed the same job every day  indeed lead to saturation in the works. As a result, morale declined. And, you did not have the motivation to finish the job that the company charged.
When feeling bored at work hit you, do not be silenced. Make yourself excited and motivated to return to work. How to raise work motivation?
Morale and motivation in a person because there are affected internal and external factors, such as problems in the family, attitudes and policies of the leadership that is not conducive, the disease you are suffering, the desire to ride position, or be tempted company promised bonuses.
If there is no negativity on internal and external factors that make your mood down, morale and motivation as embers fanned, and posing a fire blazing. Conversely, there are few things negaitf on two factors, the spirit can be extinguished immediately.
Well, so you do not reprimand the leadership, given a warning letter (SP), or even fired because of lackluster companies and is considered not useful, the following tips. 

Maintain professionalism

Companies and families are two different places with different needs and interests of all, even if you live in an environment of both. Separate your work world with domestic life and family.

Never carry household and family issues into the workplace. In this way, your mood for the job, not disturbed. Morale and motivation were intact, not reduced. Moreover disappeared.

Do not forget the aim of working

When you send a job application, anxiously waiting for calls, struggling to 'beat' the other applicants during the interview session, and eventually began working on the company entrusted with the task, what goals you want to achieve with all that struggle?

A good income to meet all needs, and can live comfortable and respectable with his parents, wife and children?

Do not waste that struggle. If you currently have a problem with the company, find a way out, but do not loosen the spirit and motivation of your work. If your performance decreases, even to below the standard, believe me, you will only face bigger problems, because you could be fired with no respect. 

Positive Thinking 

Life is full of problems. This could not be denied. An organization called the company was definitely so. Especially because this organization has so many employees and assets to be managed and developed properly. So think positive about your company. Even though you know there is a negative for the company, still see the bright side.  

 It helps you to stay motivated at work.

Keep communication 

It can not be denied, company policy and attitude of the leadership can be one factor that decreases the mood of employees to work. Keep the communication to find a solution. If you can not deal with the leadership or the company alone, ask your friends to confront the same boat. Space is often effective communication to resolve the problem, because most companies do not want turmoil in his body.

 this tips taken from website : http://vivanews.com

My Ambition in 25th Years Old

Assalamu alaykum. Wr.WbBa'da Tauhid wa Tahmid------>>> Halaman Indonesia Tonjok diSINI
Thank God ... now I've started to move toward adulthood ......
Not feel is mid-2011 but in retrospect, 2005 is still felt today .....
and did not feel parents, aunt, uncle and grandfather had started nearly 50 years and 60 years
Come to think of God more and restrict me to give something valuable for them ....
They can not wait as time went on ....


How My Life Should be ....?????
 




In my 25 years old .... I must give to Them .......


tp I do not know ... what ?????


I believe and trust the people we love who do not expect a reward for everything they did to us during this since we were born until now .... ..


but the thing is ... when they can smile and proudly say ...




My Son ... Success has been already ........




I really want to get success in my 25 years old, ...




Success in Financial, Self improvement, and time / Raymond freedom ......




I really wants to be


I am proud to be my self ....

Dhymalk dhykTa

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